Anonymous asked:

So I need help. I've gotten bullied about so badly that I can't talk to my friends about it because they'll probably think it's stupid and I don't want to put my problems on them. And so I just turn to drugs and alcohol to help resolve it but. When I get off the high I feel worse than I already do. Please help me. I don't know what to do

please tell your friends, they’ll care and want to help you so much! ik it feels like you’re dragging them down but trust me they’d feel so much worse if they found out about this one day and knew they hadn’t helped, they love you so much and would want to get you back on your feet as soon as possible :) maybe just tell one or two if you feel more comfortable with that?
also try calling a helpline or reach out to any professionally trained person to help with your drugs and alcohol issues because your friends might not be able to help with those alone xx

Anonymous asked:

People always thought I was a nice girl who would never do anything wrong or break any rule. Some kids mocked me for being overly nice but I liked being kind,it was my best trait. Now I noticed that sometimes I'm rude;I made what I thought was an innocent joke but someone thought I was being serious and called me rude;It happens on tumblr too,I send someone a message 'cause I'm confused&need an explanation but they think I'm sending hate;I correct someone and they think I'm mean. It makes me sad

the best thing to do is put yourself in the other persons shoes and think about how you’d feel if someone said it to you, also if you have doubts about how the other person might feel if you say it then just dont to be safe, try have a chat to your friends about what you’re saying that is rude so you can try work on yourself and stop yourself saying things that might hurt others
saying rude things can be a subconscious thing, so just try focus on what you say and you’ll get back to your old nice self in no time xx